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VILAR LAW, P.A.

Directions: Slowly read each question and ask yourself: “How far will I go?” Answer honestly. You
will notice that the first five questions present easier decisions because they indicate eminent physical
danger, while the last five present emotional danger. Are you willing to risk placing your child(ren) in
danger of any kind?

  1. Would you jump into an ice-cold lake to save your child(ren) from drowning?
  2. Would you give up one of your kidneys if it would save your child(ren)’s life?
  3. Would you sell all your worldly possessions for a costly, life-saving surgery for your child(ren)?
  4. Would you change your diet if your child(ren)’s doctor diagnosed your child(ren) with diabetes?
  5. Would you give up smoking if your child(ren) had a high risk of lung disease or asthma?
  6. Would you forgive your child(ren)’s other parent to help your child(ren) develop a healthy sefesteem?
  7. Would you let go of the past to give your child(ren) a positive future?
  8. Would you let go of bitterness/anger if your child(ren) develop anxiety symptoms?
  9. Would you usse impulse control if it would teach your child(ren) to think before he acted?
  10. Would you give up being right so that your child(ren) wouldn’t feel caught in the middle?

Love is ACTION…not words.
If you really love your child(ren), it is time to ACT like it.
Make your child(ren)’s dreams a realtiy.